Friday, October 5, 2012

Why We Get Fat

Tracey and I got a couple of comments here yesterday for the first time in a long time, and it made me realize that hey, people still care about low-carbing and that hey, we haven't written here for nearly a year. Crazy!

You'll be happy to know that we're still at least semi-low-carb. I say semi, because we both still absolutely believe that this is the right way to eat, but we still have all of these great feelings attached to foods we know aren't good for us. And don't hate us, but we don't exactly want to do anything about it just yet.

We've both been eating low-carb breakfasts and lunches and then whatever we want for dinner, which is keeping our weights steady but not allowing us to lose anything. For us, just maintaining is a pretty big deal. Tracey has been keeping up with low-carb blogs and podcasts all along, but I have to admit that I stopped paying attention and stopped caring for a while. Here's something I wrote back in July, when I was coming around to low-carb again:

I picked up Gary Taubes's Why We Get Fat: And What to Do About It knowing what it'd say, "We get fat because we eat grain and sugar." I thought it'd give me some motivation to stop listening to everyone around me who continues to tell me that all I have to do is eat "right"–meaning low-calorie–and go to the gym. What I didn't expect is that it would give me brand new insight not just about why we get fat but why I specifically get fat.

I believe Taubes when he says that people are just wired differently and that I'm just one of those people who can't eat carbs without consequence. After all, lots of people have terrible reactions to dairy or gluten. Lots of people get angry when they drink alcohol. I'm just a person who can't handle my sugar very well. It almost seems more manageable when I see it in those terms; I can do it, but I have to do it a little differently than all of those low-calorie/gym people.

When I see my my co-workers eating chicken fingers and pizza for lunch, I have to remember that they're not trying to lose weight. When I see my friends with the crazy metabolisms scarfing down cupcakes, I have to remember that diabetes and double chins aren't even on their radars. I have to remember that celebrities, people whose job it is to look good, eat low-carb.

I have to remember that it's not just for weightloss, it's for overall health. I have to remember that it's not the end of the world if I feel like I need to eat something carby as long as it's a one-meal break or a one-day break and not a one-month break or a one-year break. I HAVE TO REMEMBER TO STICK WITH THIS.

Let's do this.

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Well, how awesome! Welcome back! II am sticking with this!
Jillie
1 reply · active 651 weeks ago
Thanks! I was just checking out your blog and loved your post about all of the different types of beads. I'm not very crafty myself, but I love to look at that kind of thing!
Hang in there! Thanks for your thoughts. I've gone six months low-carb/low-sure and have lost 25 pounds. But now I'm thinking, "What's next?" Is this a forever thing? I think it needs to be. But it would be hard to go it alone. Hoping to see more posts and recipes from you!
1 reply · active 651 weeks ago
That's always been a problem for me, too. I'll do the induction phase for way too long and think, "I can't possibly live like this forever! Maybe I'll switch to a low-calorie diet instead; that's more doable." Well, of COURSE I can't live like that forever. I'm not supposed to! When I see how other low-carbers are doing this for life by figuring out how to make their favourite foods lower-carb, I'm so inspired. Even just knowing that I can maintain my weight by eating two low-carb meals a day gives me such hope. I hope you stick with it!
Hi,

I have never commented on a blog before but I just read this and it is so what I needed to see right now. I have always battled with weight and yes when I give up carbs and sugar I slim down. The minute I fall off the wagon and start to eat carbs and sugar again I gain the weight plus back. I have learned and tried that eating just one carb for a meal and eating no more than 5 grams of sugar in anything is a nice compromise to giving it all up completely. Sugar is my drug! I’m trying to get back on track and give up the goods one more time; I’m having a hard time. I need to remember that I can take a break for a meal or a day. That’s what always seems to mess me up. Thanks for being just what I needed to read today.
1 reply · active 646 weeks ago
So glad you commented, Jennifer, and I do hope this kind of thinking gets you back on track like you want to be. I've found that it's so much easier for me to eat two low-carb meals a day if I know I get to enjoy whatever I want for dinner. Have you read up on the Belly Fat Cure at all? What you're doing with the one carb and 5 grams of sugar per meal sounds very similar.
Hi, 1st time reading your blog and I feel for you ... I have to send some encouragement to you .... don't lose heart! I read Gary Taubes book with the hope that it would help me get out that rut but I haven't because my family won't lo-carb/no sugar with me even though we all know the family history of weight gain then diabetes .... scary to think about! Where is the happy balance?!
All I can say is just take it one day at time and hopefully you'll get your mojo back and find that balance!
Good luck!
1 reply · active 642 weeks ago
Ugh, not having support from your family is the hardest thing. My boyfriend doesn't agree with low-carbing, but he at least tries to eat low-calorie, so I don't have to sit and watch him chow down in chicken fingers and fries every night. I just keep telling myself that this is right FOR ME and that I have to eat this way no matter what's going on around me. For me, the balance is eating at least two low-carb meals a day. If I know I'm going to want a bad dinner with friends, I always eat a healthy lunch. I wonder if your family would be willing to do that.

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